人类很特别

@全球流行风尚两个婴儿早产,分别被放置在各自的保育箱里,其中一个可能活不下来。医院护士不顾医院守则,将两个婴儿放到了一个保育箱里。当她们被放到一处的时候,两个中较健康的一个伸臂搂住了妹妹。妹妹的心脏渐渐的跳得稳了,体温也回升到了正常温度。—-《拯救生命的拥抱》

以上取自微博,可能会有人说那只是社交网络的手法。。可是我始终相信人类是特别的。其中都有心灵感应,尤其是有血缘关系的时候。

善良与丑恶
快乐与悲伤
相信与质疑

可能我们都对别人犯下错误的判断;可是无论怎样人类之间的表达可以很简单也可以很复杂。。但是我们都是特别的。

今天是个开心的日子 =)

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寻找.lost and found.

本来还是很迷茫的,可是今天看到了一篇报道。

我想自己以前简单地面对事物,其实领悟到的东西就更深奥。记得以前想出了一句话,非常喜欢的后来朋友们有时候也会用它来时心情好起来。。现在分享这句话,“You can be happy, anything and everything that you want to be”.

的确,当你选择什么你就会跟着那样东西走下去。当你选择快乐地面对,即使在最坏的困境中你也可以找到出路;你若选择看到黑暗的一面,可能人生就少了色彩你也可能会对世界心灰意冷。还是选择前者好了,因为世界并不是那么黑暗的。至少你最低落的时候,家人陪伴着你、朋友安慰着你。

谈到领悟,最近的我一直在寻找。生活上什么是充实的?什么是最好的?难道别人有的你也要有吗?难道别人的成就高也意味着你要跟着去达到那些高水准吗?有要求是好的;可是更好的是做每一件事都可以问心无愧,做每一件事都可以快乐,做每一件事都是一种享受。

最后,我想告诉自己还有读这篇文的有缘人,你可以一直寻找心里想要的。或者你可以放下要寻找的心态。。。

因为,
放下的时候可能有意想不到的结果
放下的时候可能你获得更自在。
放下的时候,你就真正地在活着自己的人生。

最终,其实你寻找的只有一样东西。而我现在只寻找一样东西,那就是与世无争的心态。渐渐地感受到了了,可是我更想让自己自然地迎接它。

我一直不知道要成为真么样的人,可是最近在网络上看到有一种东西叫文艺青年。若说自己是文艺青年似乎太造作了,若说自己是伪文艺青年还好一些。

现阶段给自己的定义是:最求成为文艺青年,更重要的是快乐。

PS: 真的庆幸自己看到了那篇文章,it has give me a new perspective and i shall always remember: I be happy, anything and everything that I want to be =)

平衡点

我在寻找自己的平衡点。似乎好久好久都感觉不踏实,但始终是说不出原因。
每一次尽量地让自己过得忙碌、充实,可是到头来结束之后又感觉空虚及不踏实。

其实要快乐可以很简单,要平静也很容易。。今天与朋友在图书馆学习,我的心情就很好了。可是结束了某种状态,心情又随之改变。

有时候想想,踏实的感觉是这样的吗?我确实感到非常疑惑。

如果是这么样的踏实感,那么我愿意重新找回自己的平衡点。
如果这样的感觉并非踏实,那么我该到那里寻找呢?

现在每天都在鞭策自己要有正面思想。。就连电话屏幕的墙纸是向日葵;要有正面的态度。
希望长期以来的催眠真的能够把以前的阳光都带回给我。

其实以前因为不怎么在乎,所以少根筋快乐地度过;现在很多事情和责任都明确了反而无法自在地面对。

也许这就是成长,那么我无厘头地想说:我不想长大。

PS: 真希望明年的今天我身在国外,希望明年的一月我住的是学校。

 

 

criticism

why do you criticize. because people are not up to your expectations? but have you considered whether you will be up to their

expectations if the tables were turned?

and even if expectations were not met, will you even give credit for the effort put in?

 

 

Feelings.情感。

I wasn’t talented, mine was a nurture>nature experience, yet she didn’t give up on me. i began at age seven or eight, i couldn’t remember. the initial intention was to get me settled down as a child9i was atrociously mischievous and perhaps violent), and honestly i was clueless that i was a piano player until i was about 11. for four years i was just in a daze, playing like a robot, from being disinterested to gradually liking what i am doing.

yet she didn’t blame me for not working hard enough or putting in enough effort, she wanted to nurture me so that it could come naturally to me, one day. and that day could come quick, it could come slowly. i know it is time to show her that her effort paid off, and i was determined not to disappoint her again.

then came the second time her vision was affected, yet she was so natural and so seasoned that she could tell even by listening. i do not want to lose her as a teacher or a grandmother figure. please get well soon, i have no idea how to express my concern for her but i hope to show her that i have a warm feeling towards her, and now i am determined to show it through my music.

七八岁的我,开始接触音乐。我并非天生的有音乐才华,不过不否认我有一些音乐细胞。。但是环境影响还是重要的,从不知情到对音乐有感觉一路伴着我的是老师。面对我小时的韧性和不认真,她不厌倦地教导我希望有一天我也会出色地展现自己。我不想让她失望,决心要让她知道她的教诲我时刻都记得。

又一次的视力衰退 拜托快点好起来,我还没有向您展示我在您身上真的学习到了。
我 不善于表达,但是我想通过我的文字、通过有音乐让您感受到。

TGIF+介绍

Busy busy! hehe…

i think these two are my favourite expression now. ask me and i’ll say busy busy… tell me anything i’ll respond with hehe first… and yes 31st is coming and before that i’m looking forward to 29th when it’s finally out!

to prepare for the 31st, the girls and i went to haji lane and bought our outfits for finals. to answer “popular” request and of course to follow the dress code, i bought a dress. honestly speaking i seldom wear a dress because i don’t have much sense in picking a nice one, and the one bought yesterday was also partly chosen by my friends… hehe and i guess there’s always a start to everything. perhaps the way to go is to embrace what comes your way =)

after which was “Song Fa Bak Kut Teh”, haven’t had a really nice one in ages… it’s really nicer than most and of course i think the best is still the one i went a few years back in Balestier. thanks to 46th for many “first time”~

and here’s a random one…

面对不一样的群体,面对新的群体你是什么心态呢?

会烦躁因为又再一次介绍自己吗?

可是 因为不一样的人所以必须让他们认识你。

PS: the attitude matters, 放好心态吧!