The Happy Student?

I was given a book by my dad, it’s about steps to being a happy student.

to be really honest, i was really skeptical, what constitutes happiness? the author’s notion of happiness might not be mine, or maybe what he is referring to is very general and not particularly applicable to me?

then when I start reading, it’s another over-achiever writing the book.. skeptical me again, but the points he raised are applicable, in any case i will continue to read and maybe my perception of the book will change.

yet I know it’s not enough to make me feel a ‘personal touch’ with it, maybe i am reading it fearing that i’m missing out something? maybe people read it due to the same reason as me? then how does it break down the wall of ‘merely pursuing grades at all costs’ which the book is trying to do?

yes i shall give myself and the author a chance.

i guess what I really want to say is, happiness has a different definition for everyone. i certainly don’t wish to refer to an external outlet to discover my happiness although it could be a guidance or reminder when i’m off track. at this point regardless of what people say, my happiness is…

健康,平安,尽全力。

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人是很坚强的对吗?

告诉自己什么,好像就真的会实现。

坚强,豁达,尽全力。

已经开始忙碌了,告诉自己可以完成眼前的一切。只要一步一步来 我是坚强的。

 

回顾 Looking Back.

The year is coming to an end in about five days, and then maybe around me are doing some sort of reflection on their grades and stuff.. not compelled or obliged to do the same, but i reckon it’ll be a good way to remind yourself and gear up for a new beginning.

so maybe my grades are average, thanks to a particular module but nevertheless i think i have quite a good first semester considering i was still really lost.. at one point i was thinking: what am i doing here?!

i think i am quite fickle minded, and i will often look back and regret with thoughts of “what if?”.. then again if we know the future there wouldn’t be history and things may not be the same anymore. as such i decided to move on from my average grade experience and ignore the fact that i have made a not very wise choice. i accept that it’s my choice and accept all consequences =D

ranting and talking to myself has given me a clear perspective! surprise~surprise~

回顾着即将过去的一年,是过得好的。要知足。

跟一位叔叔谈天时学到 “沟通是要坦诚的”

愿我一直都可以做到。。

Matters :)

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The year is coming to an end real soon… and now it’s Christmas 🙂 the year has been great with pleasant surprises and all… So I’m really grateful.

Starting the Christmas with a nice movie “The Holiday” on tv, what an apt film~ I guess for some feelings you just don’t wish to spell it all out, maybe cos it matters more when kept in the heart.

平安夜刚过,迎接我们的是圣诞。
祝快乐 祝健康 祝一切安好

《班扎古鲁白玛的沉默》

《班扎古鲁白玛的沉默》
作者:扎西拉姆·多多

你见,或者不见我
我就在那里
不悲不喜
你念,或者不念我
情就在那里
不来不去
你爱,或者不爱我
爱就在那里
不增不减
你跟,或者不跟我
我的手就在你手里
不舍不弃
来我的怀里
或者
让我住进你的心里
默然 相爱
寂静 欢喜

偶然看到这首诗,并不是古诗 但是诗句也非常凄美。平静。

不矫情了,纯粹好听的歌和有意思的诗。

目标

旅行完了,很放松回来也有东西等着。。

每一次的出门都受益良多,这次也不例外。反正在回来的路上想了很多,然后想到了自己的目标,苦恼目标还是不明确 但相信有一天会找回的。

反正现在要让自己变得更勤奋一些,这样有明确目标时也不会太迟吧?

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